Sebab, jadi macam ni la.

Jadi yang part, husband risau terlebih.

Yes, the wives memang sikit-sikit nak mengadu domba.

: Hari ni makan nasi ayam.

: Tadi Bon minta aiskrim.

: Bon b.o. tadi.

Dalam-dalam update kehidupan yang tak membawa impak tu, ada juga yang terselit, yang tak terungkap for the meantime.

Partners should be no secrets at all between them. That's make the gap. Tu yang jadi bila you're keeping a secret. Dulu masa baru kahwin, sikit-sikit pegang tangan, now, seorang jalan belakang, seorang jalan depan. Tak pun, seorang keluar beli barang, seorang lagi duduk dalam kereta. Ada juga yang kena tinggal je kat rumah.

Ada sebab kenapa para isteri hiding some things from the husbands. We dont know how their reactions. The most, we're trying to make everything looks so.. Peaceful? Trying to make life more easier. Tak payah risau pasal orang sekeliling and all.

Tapi, sooner or later, those secrets will coming out. Sang isteri akan meluahkan perasaan. Kadang-kadang cerita dah bertahun-tahun, baru sang isteri bercerita. Dan barulah sang suami sedar, there's something wrong at that time. Tapi the wife kept it as a secret.

Memang para isteri suka mengadu. Suka merengek. We're the attention seeker. No matter how 'keras' you are on the outside, inside, still, a wife. Ada bunga-bunga.

And when man being man. They know that they got to do something when the wives cant kept the secret anymore. Perempuan suka pendam perasaan. They hold it untill one moment, they want to let it go. Let it go means erased them from the memoirs. While men taking them as serious matter to think about.

It might be serious matters if happens couple days ago. Tapi if dah bertahun-tahun tu, let it go.

Pejam mata orang kata.

Orang kata, berbudi dan berbahasa. Orang berbudi, kita berbahasa. Dan sering kali, kita berkata, hutang budi bawa ke mati.

Sungguh?

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