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For better or for worse, the Virgo baby is plenty fussy! How else do you expect these kids to grow up to be perfectionists? Get used to it: the Virgo baby can be quite particular and needs to have a routine. At least having a routine isn't all bad, but don't even think of changing it! This baby will not respond well to a lot of change.

Harapan untuk menukar waktu tidur kepada waktu petang adalah.. 50%. Before this, the kecik used to take 2X naps per day. Then I reduced them to only 1 nap per day. If the kecik taking nap too early, example, at 8am and woke up around 10, I'll make sure the kecik having another nap after lunch.

If with my sayang or me, part tidur memang particular. If on holiday, especially when with Cik Esah, memang tidur lambat. But then, be ready to face cranky baby. Bersedialah untuk menambah pahal dengan berselawat sebanyak mungkin.

Routine yang memang jelas dan maklum sangat-sangat, bangun pagi, mesti cari tin biskut. If I lupa nak refill the biscuits, nanti the kecik will take something from the fridge. Cheese, most of the time. Tapi memang seboleh mungkin, the kecik will find biscuits first then barulah makan benda lain. It's like benda wajib buat after celik mata. Lepas tu baru cari remote tv, minta bukakan those animals channel.

You'll feel like living in a zoo in my house, every single morning.

The Virgo baby can also be picky about food, so keep it simple at mealtimes.

Makan memang fussy. Ok. Not so fussy makan other kids. It's just that the kecik more into home cooking. Makan luar, is not his favvy. Except the KFC popcorn chicken and McD porridge. And make sure only the bubur nasi and ayam sahaja. Sayur, bawang goreng, not included. The kecik more preferred the porridge less oily. Kan bila letak all those sayur and bawang goreng, jadi berminyak-minyak. So, this budak bertuah memang tak akan makan bubur ayam, if berminyak.

Home-cooked is one thing. Simple pun satu. If dah malas tu memuncak, I masak nasi with ayam goreng dan letak kicap atas nasi, it's more than enough for the kecik. Silap haribulan, sampai 2 pinggan just for him. Tak payah susah-susah nak buat 2-3 lauk, the kecik will eat them. Snacks adalah wajib. Cookies the favourite. And yes, lots lots lots of air mineral. Volvic or Spa. Dont give babies Evian. Too much minerals for them.

Aside from these peculiarities, this tot doesn't require a lot. A clean bedroom and simple clothing are sure to keep this baby dry-eyed.

Baju hendaklah menepati citarasa dan mood. If berkedut banyak sangat baju tu, silalah pergi gosok. Otherwise the kecik will refused to wear them. Songeh banyak. Hahaha.. If hari ni this budak bertuah feeling nak pakai baju pergi beach, the kecik will asked for them. If after lunch, baju kotor or poo, or every single time after taking afternoon bath, mesti kena pakai baju lain. As for now, my veto power still in the 1st position. If dah merajuk, guling-guling, muncung-muncung still tak nak pakai what's am prepared for him, barulah I let the kecik choose for himself. Tapi jaranglah. As am very good in taste. Ok. Perasan. Baju anak je la yang I memang pandai pilih suits the kecik's mood and feeling.

Cleanliness? Tak payah cakap.
Tahap melampau. Pergi pasar, jalan jinjing. Lopak air? Automatically, we've to carry him. Masuk dapur, wajib pakai shoes. Apatah lagi masuk part washing machine. Lagilah mencari kasut.

Kotor sikit..

: Eii.. Ei... dirTYYYYY!

Sabar. Sabar.

As well, the Virgo baby is quite good at amusing itself for hours with the most basic of games, feeling very little need for the attention of others.

Yes. True indeed. If bagi jigsaw or bricks, ini memang favourite. One thing for sure, the kecik loves books sooooo much.

Tak tau la terkenan masa I pregnant ke apa. Sebab dulu masa I pregnant, kan every single day, I mesti pergi mall, shopping, and bookstore adalah my favourite place. Dah dapat parking, I'll go to the bookstore first then baru merayap ke tempat lain. Luckily it's good habits. Tapi dalam bagus tu, every single books belongs to the kecik. Even it's my sayang's or mine. If my sayang mengaji, mesti this little angel ambil Yassin, and buat-buat baca. Terkumat-kamit mulut.

This is one attention seeker.
Everyone MUST pay attention to the kecik even if you tegur the kecik..

: Hi baby!

And the answer..

: No!

Still you've to try making conversation. Usik pun jadilah. Konon tak suka orang tegur-tegur, walhal memang suka. If the kecik's mood okay, you'll get shake hands, hugs and kisses. Otherwise, flying kiss only.

The Virgo child also wants to talk early on, probably earlier than most of the other babies around. There's a lot going on in that mind, so it may as well come out!


Ini.. Banyak aksi tunjuk-menunjuk daripada bercakap. If nak air, tunjuk botol. Then I'll asking the kecik..

: Nak air?

: (Angguk-angguk)

Most of the time gibberish. Yes. I know. Most of kids around his age dah boleh bercakap pung pang pung pang. I can understand what's the kecik trying to say. Banyak sangat keluar from his mind, tu yang bunyi macam German tu. We're practising OPOL at home. If pergi to next door, the Germany-Arabic's family, mesti keluar words Germany. Or France. Or Arabic. Pergi site sana pula, Indonesian. So, there's a bit counfiusing there. Yang bagus, every single things our neighbours said, the kecik understand them. I dont get it. Yet, my baby understood them all. Cuma bila tafsirkan balik, nak luahkan balik, tu yang the kecik keluar perkataan, perkataan pelik.

From an early age, this baby can also be seen as mother's little helper, as the need to serve others is a strong Virgo trait.

Memang boleh diharap.

: Baby, air please.

Kejap lagi sampailah air.

: Baby, turn off the air-cond.

Kejap lagi off la air-cond tu.
It's like I have a magic controller. Hahaha.. It's not kategori mother yang kejam kan? Kan?

From the big blue book, the one we read in preparations of having kid, pada peringkat umur macam ni, or lebih kecil, they should already know how to help around the house. If menyapu? Wah.. Memang favourite. Even I dont know what's the kecik try to sapu. Still gaya untuk menyapu tu ada.

They also won't make a fuss over their accomplishments, since by nature these kids are a bit shy.

Ni pun baru la kot.. Since khatan. Pantang nampak perempuan tegur, mesti menyorok belakang I. Apa barang menyorok belakang mommy?

If the kecik finish up the meals, or buat new towers with the bricks and toys, and once you tepuk tangan, or said, 'Good Boy!, 'Bijaknya!', mesti the kecik malu-malu. Senyap malu. Malu tapi mahu. Itu kena ingat.

The kecik macam segan-segan nak tunjuk yang he loving them, tapi we need to show them. Barulah the kecik tak malu nak giving back. Like hugs. If everyday, nampak I hugs kisses my partner, mesti the kecik terikut. It's good. Being husband and wife, depan anak tak payahlah nak sorok-sorok the intimate. It's like, spreading the love.

Bila the kecik tengok, ok, if doing nice, dapat hugs, or every single 'bye,bye' mesti ada salam, hugs and kisses, every single times pergi rumah orang lain, or meet other person, the kecik will do the ritual.

To sum up, the Virgo baby is fine on their own but also happy to help others, loves cleanliness, and can easily keep themselves amused. Pretty (albeit picky!) good kid.

Well said!

Tapi tidur still atas tummy my husband. If tak dapat, atas tummy Barney tu pun jadilah.

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