Been trying few times.

To make this..



Gone forever.

Pampers tu haa.. Bukan yang dalam tu.
And I'm not magician to make it happens. Magician pun training berapa juta kali kan. My attempts only 3 times pun dah macam.. Oh. Baby pakai je la diapers tu selagi mommy beli.

Pada suatu hari yang hening, entah macam mana, terjebak baca 'How to potty training your kid'.

Ada few points there. Antaranya biar anak 2 tahun lebih. I know, some of you, anak belum 2 thn dah tak payah beli diapers dah. Tapi the 2 tahun, itu adalah cadangan umur untuk start potty training. Maksudnya ajar anak pergi toilet for their No 1 and No 2 business. Buang air besar dan kencing la kan.

Buang air besar, seems like no problemo to the kecik. There's few days, around last 2 weeks, this anak teruna, dah berhari-hari tak b.o. Mesti sembelit ni. On the 3rd day, I ajak the kecik masuk toilet, kita main air dalam ni. Ok. Duduk atas toilet bowl tu, keluarlah segala isi yang tak terkeluar for few days tu. Lepas tu senyum lebar budak bertuah ni. Haaa.. Amacam? Mana lagi senang? B.o dalam diapers ke kat dalam toilet?

3-4 kali buang air besar aka berak dalam toilet bowl, ok. Then, tiba-tiba, the kecik doesnt want to use the toilet anymore. Back to the diapers. Ye la. Dah tak sembelit, diapers tu juga la yang dicari. Plus, during the time, I suruh the kecik doing the business at the toilet, lepas dah selesai, I pakaikan diaper juga kat budak bertuah ni. It's not totally diaper-less. Kencing je dalam diaper, nak b.o. dalam toilet. Sebab masa sembelit tu, we can see how berkerut-kerut muka budak bertuah ni. So, ada masa la nak bawa ke toilet. Dah ok, dah tak sembelit, dah bau busuk satu rumah baru datang dekat I, mintak cuci.

Eiii..
Baby ingat mommy ni 24/7 available?
Cuba minta your daddy basuh. Rasa dah lama dah the big boss tak basuh b.o budak bertuah ni.

During sembelit tu, ada la juga I try tak bagi the kecik pakai diapers. Hm... Bertuah. Tak sampai 2 jam, dah basah. Bila dah basah..

: Eiii.. Eiii.. Mommy.. Mommyy...

Tau pula geli. I've told the kecik, nak pee pee, told me. Ni tak, tak sampai 2 jam dah selamat, basuh semua seluar. Walhal before keluar toilet tadi I dah suruh the kencing, and he did.

One of the point, dalam nak potty training, the child must be able to hold his pee for 3-4 hours.

2 kali I try the kecik, tak pakai diapers lepas b.o, 2 kali jugalah basah seluar. And after a while, I've trying to do it again. Diaper-less. As budak bertuah ni b.o. at 3pm and memandangkan in few hours lagi nak take another bath before night time, I'll let the kecik go for free. Means.. Free tanpa diaper. Bukan bagi anak free saja-saja kat orang lain.

3.05 pm
Took the kecik for a bath

3.13pm
Done with the bath. Ask the kecik to pee in the toilet before wearing the clothes.

3.15pm
My anak teruna pee at the toilet

3.17
Done with the clorhing.

4.15pm
Took the kecik for another round of pee and he did it, in the toilet. Misi berjaya untuk kali ini.

5.10pm
Took the kecik for another round. As we're going out. And this budak bertuah seems not interested with the pee thingy.

5.15pm
Met my other half.
Then turun balik as the big boss still in a meeting. Lepak bawah, tiba-tiba..

: Mommy? Mommy? Eiii...

Sudah. Basah. The current time 5.38pm.

Balik rumah, cuci and all, and off to meet my sayang again. Pung pang pung pang.. Lamanya nak habiss.. Later 6.15 baru habis and I was in no mood to go for an outing dah. Kang mau budak bertuah ni kencing dalam kereta, atas car seat, I jga yang cuci. Dah. Jom. Balik rumah. Mandi then sleep.

My anak teruna memang tidur awal.

Tuntasnya, anak lelaki ini masih belum bersedia untuk tidak memakai lampin pakai buang. Selang sejam, harus ke bilik air untuk kencing. Sekiranya terawal 5 minit, kegiatan kencing dalam bilik air tidak akan berlaku dan akan mengakibatkan kejadian kencing dalam seluar selepas 28 minit.

Danggggggg...
Nampak gayanya, we've stick to wearing diapers la baby. Since the kecik cant hold his pee for few hours, tak dapek la den nak nolong. Even the meaning of hold pun this budak tak faham. Apatah lagi nak doing the hold thingy.

And the most important point in doing the potty training,

The parents must be prepared mental and physical in doing it. So do the child.

Nampak gays, the kecik doesnt prepare for it yet.
So do the parents.

I sebenarnya macam.. Ehh.. Dah tak payah pakai diapers ke? Malasnya mommy. Banyak hal la pula nanti. Leceh la. Nak ulang-alik toilet. Nanti malam, tak pasal-pasal basah tilam. Belum lagi if budak bertuah ni ter'b.o.' ke apa ke.. See. Attitude yang tak boleh ikut. Jangan tiru.

Jangann kata I. My other half pun sama.

: Yang, tolong bawa budak ni gi toilet. Suruh dia kencing

: Hmm.. Sayang je la bawa.

See... I juga.
Tak pun.. My other half senyap je diam membisu bila suruh bawa the kecik ke tolet, lama tak jawab and mendiam diri sambil tengok tv, sedar-sedar this baby boy dah selamat basah dalam seluar.

Tapi ada juga yang rajin.

: Jom ikut daddy gi toilet.

Tak sampai seminit dalam toilet

: Dah. Pergi pakai seluar dengan mommy. Buat penat tunggu, tapi tak kencing-kencing pun.

Yang.. Seminit pun tak sampai. Tunggu la sekejap. Tapi kesabaran menunggu anak kencing tu tak ada, so, kita buat kesimpulan, the parents and the child didnt ready yet laa.

Memang la my other half said..

: Tadi pagi kata tak nak pakai diaper, ni kenapa pakai juga?

: Dah tu. Every single hour, I'm the one who have to take the baby to go to the toilet. Bila suruh sayang, tak nak. Pakai je la diaper.

Malas nak gaduh.
Plus, I memang malas pun melawat toilet tu.
Pendek kata, I, myself, was prepare (yet) for the diaper-less thingy.

Bila the kecik tak pakai diaper, I look at him, and see my baby is growing each day, in super fast mode. So, let me be with my baby boy dulu la. Nanti-nanti kang, if the kecik ready, tak adalah diapers dah.

Macam breastfeed. And bottlefeed. It's the kecik choice. Not me. Yes, we're a bit leceh and kurang rajin mode in term of potty training. Bermaksud, the parents not ready yet. But then, in potty training, your own child should know how to hold their pee in few hours. Ni selang sejam nak ke toilet. Semput baby haaa.. Main air yang lebih daripada kencing.

But then, I'll try it again. Once berjaya, I'll tell about it in here. Wish me luck!