Borak-borak dengan the husband. Then my sayang told me that..

: Hari tu budak office yang baru tu (Kelantan) dapat call dari sekolah international tu. Kan hari tu dia apply for wife dia. Tapi tu laa.. Tak tau nak datang ke tak. Kan wife dia pregnant sekarang?

: Haaaaahhhhhhh?

: Haa. Wife dia pregnant. Kan anak sulung dia umur 7 thn, yang 2nd tu kan baru berapa bulan. Tak cukup setahun pun lagi. Lepas tu pregnant lagi.

: Laa.. Ye kee...

: Haah. Lepas tu dia marah wife dia. 'Kenapa pregnant lagii???'. Lepas tu orang marah la dia. 'Eh ko ni. Orang lain habis puluh ribu-ribu nak dapat anak, yang ko dapat anak pun nak marah isteri kenapa? Bersyukur la sikit'. Lepas tu dia pun cakap, 'Haah la kan. Aku rasa time tu syaitan rasuk aku la kott'. Haiiiihh..

: Kenapa pula dia nak marah isteri dia? (muka tak puas hati)

: Ye la. Hari tu baru bersalin. Ni dah mengandung lagi. Dah tu wife dia tak ambil yang cucuk-cucuk (sambil cucuk his own lengan)

: Cucuk apa sayang? Apa? (angkat kening). Alaaa.. Bila wife pregnant, blame wife. Kesian wife dia. Blame diri sendiri la. Siapa suruh... (ayat memang tergantungg)

: Lepas orang kata macam tu kat dia, terus dia upload gambar anak dia kat FB, lepas tu, dia type kat gambar tu, 'Bersyukurlah dengan apa yang ada'.

Nasib baik ingat nak bersyukur.

I guess, the community mesti ada yang terserempak with this scenario. Wife baru bersalin then pregnant lagi. Then husband marah-marah. Or the wife marah the husband sebab dah bersalin, now, tiba-tiba mengandung lagi. It's happens when either party still not ready for the next adventure. For some cases, the husband tak sedia. And other cases, the wife. Se tak suka - tak suka the wife getting pregnant in short time, the naluri ibu already there. Bila my sayang cerita yang budak office dia marah his wife.. I was likee..

Eii.. Ingat wife dia suka ke pregnant selang setahunnn? Mungkin his wife suka, mungkin tak. Tapi still, consider la sikit his wife feeling. Anak tu. Even if you're already have one or two or three now, you'll never know what's happen next kan? What if one day Allah took all of them back? Remember. Anak adalah pinjaman sementara buat kita, para ibubapa.

I took the pregnancy news as a rezeki for the budak office. Ye la. Dapat kerja at the company and now dapat anak. There's must be a reason. Why that's how their life works. Jangan marah isteri boleh tak? Yang terpaksa berjaga malam, before bersalin lagi, the wife. Yang senang gemuk, the wife. Strecth marks, the wife. Muka dan badan macam ju-on even it's glowing, still, it's the wife. The husband? You yang bagi benih kan? Memang la you'll always be there. Tapi you'll never know the feeling of carrying other human inside your body for the next 9 months. Tu belum lagi berjaga malam or sakit lepas bersalin. Ohhhhhhh!

At least what you can do..
Be there for her. Comfort her like when you're having your first child. Jangan anak dah 2-3, dah tak treat macam mula-mula pregnant ye! It's faul!